My husband deleted his ex-gf's # b/c she changed it. i look in his phone, and her new # is there! why??

I asked him why he still has her number in his phone and he just deletes it because she changed her number anyway. A few days ago, i look in his phone and her new number is there. Why does he feel the need to have her number in his phone?i mean he's married! It kinda concerns me because he had to have asked someone for her number or she had to have called him. Or maybe he memorized it....i'm just really frustrated at this point. I just don't understand it. I've never kept any phone numbers that i don't intend on using. I mean if he kept her number in there just cuz he never thought of deleting it...thats fine, no big deal. but first he deletes her number, then enters in her new one. i just don't get it, can someone shed some light on this?

My husband deleted his ex-gf's # b/c she changed it. i look in his phone, and her new # is there! why??
I doubt he asked someone for her number... My guess is she called him, or they saw each other. I agree, there is absolutely no reason to have ANY ex's number, or just any person's number for that matter, in your phone if you don't need to use it. I'm sorry, I would be really upset about that and look a little further into it... Not all men can be trusted
Reply:A person who is totally "miserable" in their relationship %26amp; chooses to step out with another woman/man, just for theirself, never to hurt anyone else, will go to great lengths to keep it a secret... Those who leave clues, tell a friend, or have basically given you the amunition to find out, want to get caught!! The relationship is over, he is just a coward in coming out %26amp; being man enough to tell you... And I'm sorry!
Reply:He still talks to her. It may be an innocent friendship, but he should be honest with you if that's the case. And if you express to him that you have a problem with that, he should respect your feelings.
Reply:he still likes her why else?
Reply:Just get his phone and delete it yourself. And tell him you did it.





He doesnt need old gf's numbers hes married now!
Reply:Doesn't sound like he's able to let go of the past.


If he had any respect for you he wouldn't have any contact with her. And if she had any respect for you, she wouldn't have anything to do with your husband.





When the bill comes in do you notice a lot of phone calls between them?


Does he make excuses to leave the house and is gone for hours on end?


Is money disappearing from your account and he won't tell you or can't tell you where it's going?





If you feel you need to hire in a P.I., then do it if you can afford one.
Reply:Do you love your husband? Do you trust him?





I wouldn't mind if my husband had an ex girlfriends number in his phone. I personally am still friends with a few of my ex's and it doesn't bother him. I know that he loves me and I love him and that we are both committed to our marriage.





I think it's okay to have relationships with members of the opposite sex, as long as both of you are completely open and honest about those relationships. Never talk about anything you wouldn't talk about anything with your friend that you wouldn't talk about with your spouse sitting right there.
Reply:he has it because he still talks to her.
Reply:He knows it's there, he knows he can reach her anytime because he's been doing that already for some time now. I'm sorry but I do believe he is seeing her. This would be hard but you do need to confront him about it.
Reply:He is cheating and keeping in touch. Even if he is not physically cheating, he is still carrying on emotionally with her. There is no reason for him to have any type of contact with her unless they have a child together.
Reply:RED flags here!





Keep your eyes and ears open...Sounds like he's either in contact with her already, or about to see her!





SORRY!
Reply:because he is still cheating duh!!!!!Get some strength and leave his a$$ he is a looser and you have allowed him to be this way by staying!
Reply:Just explain him it hurts you, He will understand. Dont yell at him or anything it only worsens
Reply:Maybe he is lookin for an azz kickin...because that is exactly what my hubby would be gettting if he had an ex gf's number in his phone....
Reply:Clearly they are still messing around behind your back...He wouldn't need her new # if they weren't!
Reply:sounds like he can't let go of her.
Reply:Some people keep numbers of old flames as a back up in case the current relationship does not work. Or he is still maintaining contact with her for some reason. You need to really discuss this with your husband as him doing this indicates a lack of total commitment to your marriage with him. He might not have done anything but his lack of commitment is an important issue here. I know if I were you I would call her. Get the facts straight from the horses mouth.
Reply:Check his phone records. He is still seeing her. If wants to see her, it sounds like he's going to. Sounds like you need to make a decision.
Reply:he's fooling around!
Reply:He is not prioritizing you! He seems to get some gratification from contact with her.





Tell him out she goes, or out you'll go! Now!
Reply:I'd be upset too. He obviously went out of his way to get the new number %26amp; then type it into his phone so he could have it handy. You need to have a serious talk with him. He's either not over her or he's keeping her as a plan B in case things with you 2 don't work out!!! Either way, those 2 things are good scenarios!!
Reply:When you get married it's time to cut all ties with past girlfriends. If he still has her new number he is either seeing her or planning on rekindling their relationship.
Reply:he still wants her, and may be still seeing her
Reply:none of the above answers are necessarily true. my ex has his number stored in his phone - god knows why because he NEVER calls me even though I want him too. He doesn't want me to contact him and says it's because he's hurt and so maybe your husband is keeping her number there so that if she calls him like how i call my husband - he can see her number come up and then ignore it? That's why my husband used to do.

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