Silence is golden> but i will not leave my new bf a old bf who wants 2 c me again. I won't get back w/ him!

To X or not to X. that is the question!


My ex just contacted me. He wants to see me, and he wants to talk, I say the hay with him. I have moved on, i still love him, but don't think i should bother with him? What woud you do? It wasn't a terrible break up, It was mainly because he relocated and we lived in 2 different states, I didn't know how to persue a long distance relationship. I didn't handle that too well. Whenever I wanted to see him, it was not like he was just around the corner. So we drifted. But now he wants to see me? What do I do? I am currently with a new boyfriend and in a new relationship, and am very happy. I don't know if there is room for me to be friends with an ex. I am not so sure. Any way, I am kinda yes and no about seeing him again. I think that i would get very emotional. And start to feel things for him again. It wouldn't be fair @ all to my new boyfriend. I would never want to hurt my new boyfriend. I care too much about him. he is wonderful and i won't .

Silence is golden%26gt; but i will not leave my new bf a old bf who wants 2 c me again. I won't get back w/ him!
Then don't. You're on the right track about not cheating on what seems to be a good catch. Good luck, and you're right- the hay with him!
Reply:then don't see him as simple as that
Reply:Do you know why he wants to see you? I'm sure he can tell you on the phone. If you are happy with your new man, leave it at that. Tell your old bf that you're involved %26amp; happy. %26amp; that he should move on.

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