Broke up w/ ex b/c she was cumpusive lier. 2 days later, she's sleeping w/ someone new.?

So I break up with this girl, who was my first love. We were dating for two years and thought I would eventually marry her. However, throughout the relationship, we had fights and broke up about 3 times. Everytime after we broke up, she did something totally uncalled for, such as getting her ex to pick her up from the amusement park, instead of me. This time around, I broke up with her and 2 days later, she is sleeping with someone else. About a week ago, she said she was pregnant by this kid but this week said she had a miscarrage (we broke up about 1.5 months ago). She would call me normally 2-4 times at 3 in the morning. She claims she wants me back, but the next minute will say f*** you if i say no. Today, she is so cold and hateful, I don't understand why b/c I wasn't the one who messed up. She lied about things from the past and that made me end it with her. How can she love me if it onlt took her a few days to sleep with somebody else? I don't want her back...ever.

Broke up w/ ex b/c she was cumpusive lier. 2 days later, she's sleeping w/ someone new.?
That's not real love, and obviously she doesn't know how to love.


Leave her alone for good, and quit allowing her to go back and forth with your feelings and emotions.


She needs time to play her games, but keep yourself out of it.


She is not marriage material at all.
Reply:Good you dont need her if shes a whore who wants to sleep around and lie.
Reply:Smart man not wanting her back ever..I hope you stick to it.


She is not in love with you or does not even love you if she can sleep with another man and do all of the things she does to you.


Tell her to stop contacting you that you do not want her anymore and you are moving on with your life.


Take some time for yourself to regroup...find out who you are, what you want out of life and what you want out of a relationship and then go for it. Your time to shine in "true love" will come...But not if you stay with her. Move on with your life for you





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Reply:Dude, get the hell out of dodge. I had a gf that was so confused in what she wanted and when we were not together, she had 3 different boys in a span of 7 months and she slept with all of them while coming to my place to sleepover (no sex though). She also got drunk when she went to the clubs every week and one time she told me she went home with a stranger and doesn't know what happened. Let's just say that girls like that are not worth it and will probably continue to do that way till something awful happens to them and realize it was a mistake. But the point is, you don't want to use a pimped up, banged up car.
Reply:Well, you already said you don't want her back. Be glad you finally got that otherwise you would be miserable in this relationship.





Oh, and why don't you just turn off your phone at night!?!
Reply:Stay away from her. She will make you misserable.
Reply:good decision that you dont want her back. you dont need to be with someone who lies to you, and obviously doesnt care about you or your feelings at all. in my opinion, you would be MUCH MUCH better without her.


good luck%26lt;33
Reply:it seems like she is trying to get you attention but is going about it the wrong way. if you don't want her back then stop talking to her, so that you don't have to take her abusive behavior. she may genuinly be in love with you, but her actions say that the chick has a serious problem. she could be hiding an abusive problem sher had in her childhood. you should get someone to recomend that she gets some kind of counceling for her behavior, you might be surprise of the change in her after that.
Reply:Honestly change your number, or make it private. You are what she leans on when her life isn't going for her. When she makes a mistake that she knows she shouldn't have, she runs to you to make it all better. Drop all communication for her and for you -- because if you don't, you're never going to get out of that groove where you have to deal with your ex being a complete fool, and she'll never wisen up and live her life right. Some people can't be explained, but there are ways to make sure you don't have to deal with them anymore.
Reply:This girl sounds like a classical borderline case. You need to read the book "I HATE YOU, don't LEAVE ME". This might help you understand her actions and the mental status of this person. I am not saying that you should EX CUSE her actions...just understand why this is happening to you. Also, you seem to be in a codependant relationship. Please seek counseling if necessary.